We Realtors help so many people and create life changing transactions. It seems tragic we can not do more for some of the "throw away" people that have by choice or by circumstances moved to the street.
This spring I was taking a walk in a local park by the water. Sitting on a bench was a lonely dirty middle aged man. I nodded on my way by....not engaging him or stopping. My walk is a 3 mile circuit I do a few times a week on a paved bike path. I had not noticed this gentleman before. Spring in Michigan still has a chill in the air. He was still there sitting on top of the picnic table watching the river slowly run by a few feet from him.
This time he looked up and smiled I nodded and said, "hello hows your day"? He answered back it is getting better.... I stopped and made small talk for a few minutes and then I had to ask...his words didn't seem as though he should be sitting on this bench. He told me he was a former executive, displaced, family gone, home gone....friends gone too. We talked a while longer and as I was turning to leave I said heres my card....call me if I you want some help...under the card I also passed him a few dollars for food. I know...most will just drink it...or that is the perception. That would be his choice...I didn't offer the money with strings attached.
I helped him get into a program, a bed and over 3 months we became friends. He went through an alcohol abuse program with flying colors. It wasn't easy but he completed it. All at once he was gone as quickly as he came into my life.
This past week just a few days before Thanksgiving he called...he was back! I had thought something might have happened to him. He wanted to stop by my home. He had never seen my home, family or anyone related to me. He said the wanted to talk just for a few minutes.
I reluctantly gave him my address. He drove up! He had a car, he was dressed in a suit....one that fit...he was clean....hair cut, shaved. I hardly recognized him. I answered the door, he leaped through and gave me a big hug. He said most people had treated him like the scum of the earth when he was on the street. I had taken the time and made a difference. He was working again in Detroit....for a automotive supply firm.
He handed me some money, the same amount of dollars I had handed him in the park with my business card. He had tears streaming down his cheeks and said, "there are a lot of us out there...take this money and do it again", thanks for saving my life".
We shook hands and he drove away. I have not heard from him since.
This is not something I would recommend doing...unless you know more or feel the individual is safe for you to engage. Some are not and resent the intrusion into their lives. I just couldn't help myself after our conversation. The holidays are coming and so many people are less fortunate than us....making a difference by serving food at a shelter or soup kitchen will open your eyes to a new side of life.
I thought the story was worth sharing. Have a great holiday season and make a difference.


Then again the public looks and says....I am confused. Why wouldn't they be confused? It isn't easy for agents to figure out programs and policies and they work in the business. So why do we think the public should be any better at understanding business models, representation or what agents will and won't do?
...what do my clients and prospects want from a real estate website. Some of the comments are very interesting. This information will allow me to adjust my site to offer more services and information that the real estate consumer wants. Thus increasing traffic to my site and therefore more potential clients. Will it work? Time will tell but the issue is feedback and making changes to meet consumer wants and needs.
firming the text message....a buyer prospect downloaded a report and searched some of my listings.
When health issues make it impossible to continue....they have a very difficult choice. As Realtor's it is so easy for us....we list, we sell, we close.....they on the other hand are making a final major life decision! Many have already stopped driving...or are going to be forced to in the near future. Their independence is slowing and begrudgingly being taken away. The transition to dependence is facing them straight on.
I try to find the closest family member and have them sit in on the meeting, if possible. Sometimes this is viewed as another reduction of Independence...and they resent it. So you'll have to be very careful when you ask if they would like a family member to be present. I enjoy dealing with seniors....I also find they are very loyal and their friends know you almost immediately. They talk to friends everyday...the phone may be their only outside world. They make friends with bank tellers, grocery clerks, waitresses, fast food employees. They develop a routine and stick to it. Washing on Monday...cleaning on Wednesday, lunch a Russ's on Friday.







When clients think there is a money tree, sometimes reality strikes like lightning.